با عشق دشمنی را از بین ببریم -‏ قسمت ۱ از ۵

As I have told you already last time about how to spot the enemies, you requested to know. There’re some little things more I want to remind you. Maybe it’s important that you know. Because sometimes the person is so bad, they could cause you damage, physically, mentally, or emotionally. So bad that you could not even get up and live again, understand? Maybe you’re still walking, but your mind, your heart, your physical is very, very down, and that is very bad. So if it happens, you have to meditate a lot, a lot more, or do something about it, understand? Because some enemies… You would think enemies come back and beat you up or anything like that, it’s not necessary…

Because in the former lives, we have been enemies because of the lack of love. It could have been a misunderstanding. It could have been the war that separated brothers and sisters in the same nation, and the same religion, same family, same ideal even. Because humans in this world are to come here to give and take again, and to redeem the past mistakes, but sometimes we don’t do it. No matter what reason, if we have been enemies in the past, in this lifetime, if you’re already there, then try to love more. Patience, okay, and love.

Nevertheless, whoever hurts the other person… It’s not the hurt person who will get hurt in the long run, because the hurt person will be rewarded. The one who hurts others, that’s the one who will be more and more separated from God and having some different measures against him or her after the physical life, or even in the same physical life. But the one who got hurt always… because the soul is always God quality, always loving, always forgiving, and always very, very kind. Soul, not the mind. So, the one who got hurt deep down always feels sorry for the one who hurt him or her. And then the one who hurt that person, also deep down in the heart, feels very, very sorry for having done so. So that’s why, if they separated, they died in that lifetime and hadn’t had a chance to make it up, to iron it out, to love over the hatred, then in this lifetime, they come back. In this world, they’ll have a chance. This is a world that gives all beings a chance to redeem the past mistakes.

But because of the nature of the past karmas, so they are bound to have conflicts and troubles again and again. Because mostly, before we were born into this world, we promised to make it better this lifetime. But when we are born, after the age of three, four, we forget totally what we have done in the past and what we have promised with Heaven. So here goes again, and out in the world and meet the enemies again, and it begins, similar stuff again.

But if sometimes the karma is so bad, so bad, it exceeds 50%, like 60 some percent, or even 50% is very unbearable already, and both cannot make it, or one partner cannot redeem it, then it could happen, many major things. Like accident or maybe you feel depressed, you lose your self-confidence. It causes you to even want to commit suicide, or really end your life. When it comes to this situation, then first, you have to stay away then first, you have to stay away for a while to think about it, think about whether it’s good to continue to keep the relationship.

The worst is to stop you from spiritual practice. …Then you have to think about what to do about it, not to hurt him or her back, but have to think about the way to protect yourself before something worse is happening. … Even if it’s his or her fault, not yours, and you know that, and you still blame yourself and then you keep becoming more and more depressed, and if you want to kill yourself, then you have to stop. Rescue both of you. Because if you stay together, then what becomes of you? And what becomes of the other person? Understand? Or if that person is abusive to you too much, then you have to go, also.